The Fancy Car and The Man Behind The Wheel

Ever wondered why we are so obsessed with owning a car? Its always on the list of goals to accomplish for most of us. Well in life we strive to demonstrate our value to others and cars are one of the major facets of our success. So ask yourself, what is the difference between the man with no car, the man behind the wheel of a devalued car and the man behind the wheel of a very valuable car like a bougatti. Then ask yourself which one do you want to be or be with? You see, the initial attraction to a person who approaches you is the type of car he has if he has any at all. When a man approaches you in a Bentley, lets face it you're attention is not on the guy. Its on the car. But the crux of my point is, the person behind the wheel serves as a metaphor for driving his or her success. And the success that he's driving is what makes the person so much more attractive. More attractive than the person driving a 2001 saturn with scrapes, bumps and a dingy interior. Because you know that cars been through a whole lot and so has the driver. Or else he or she doesn't care about the car they own or their value. It can also mean that they want success but they are enduring some struggles to get there. So be observant of these transitions in a person's life before you make decisions to be with them. Are they drivers of their own destiny or are they struggling to be there? And most importantly are they driving on the same road as you?